TEDx Talking: Kimberly Godsey On What You Need To Know To Secure, Prepare, and Deliver a Highly Effective TEDx Talk
Trust the Process on Speech Day: On the day of the speech, silence the inner critic and trust the process. Stay present and mindful, resisting intrusive thoughts that may trigger fear and doubt. Confidence is built through relentless preparation, allowing you to focus on delivering a compelling and memorable talk without distractions from your own thoughts.
In a world that is more connected than ever, the power of a well-crafted message to inspire, educate, and evoke change cannot be understated. TEDx Talks have emerged as a prestigious platform for sharing ideas worth spreading, reaching a global audience and creating impact on a grand scale. In this series, we are discussing the process of delivering a TEDx Talk that resonates and leaves a lasting impression. We are talking with experts who have successfully navigated the TEDx journey, including TEDx speakers, speaking coaches with a focus on TEDx preparations, and organizers involved in the selection and coaching of speakers. As part of this series, we had the pleasure of interviewing Kimberly Godsey.
Kimberly Godsey, a distinguished Nurse Practitioner and internationally recognized public speaker, has graced esteemed platforms such as TEDx at Northwestern University and spoken for the American Heart Association. With over two decades of specialization in cardiology, she has earned induction into the International Honor Society of Nurses. Kimberly’s impactful work goes beyond medical expertise; it serves to empower individuals, encouraging them to take charge of their health and embrace lives filled with fulfillment and happiness.
Thank you so much for your time! I know that you are a very busy person. Our readers would love to “get to know you” a bit better. Can you tell us your “Origin Story”? Can you tell us the story of how you grew up?
I come from Cincinnati, Ohio, growing up in a close-knit family with my loving single mother and three siblings. Life took a turn when my parents separated, leaving my mom, armed with only a high school education, to navigate a new path. Despite her initial dream of being a stay-at-home mom, the divorce became a catalyst for change. She decided to pursue higher education and graduated summa cum laude with a master’s in healthcare administration. Witnessing her journey, coupled with the influence of multiple family members in the nursing field, ignited my own passion for nursing. It was this familial exposure and my mother’s resilience that set me on the path to a fulfilling career in healthcare.
Can you tell us a bit about what you do professionally, and what brought you to this specific career path?
Coming from a lineage of highly educated women, the nursing profession has been more than a career choice for me — it’s a genuine calling. My healthcare journey commenced as a medic in the Army National Guard, serving on an assault helicopter battalion. In 2003, I graduated and became a registered nurse, setting the foundation for a career dedicated to healing.
Building on a strong base of critical care experience, I pursued higher education, earning my Master of Science in Nursing with honors from the University of Cincinnati in 2013. Now as a nurse practitioner, I honed my skills for over a decade at The Christ Hospital, a regional center of Cardiology Excellence.
In 2019, drawn by the desire to make a meaningful impact, I ventured to Monterey, California. Here, I established the first heart failure program in the area, leveraging my training and experience to bridge crucial healthcare gaps. Amidst the picturesque landscapes, I now reside with my husband, three daughters, three dogs, and two cats. While our home is often busy and chaotic, it is always filled with love — a testament to the dedication that echoes in both my professional and personal life.
The pivotal moment leading me to give a TEDx talk was rooted in my daily interactions with patients which showcased the intricate connection between mental and physical health. The realization of this profound link fueled my desire to share this insight on a larger scale. Motivated by the belief that everyone’s story holds value, I embarked on the TEDx journey to convey the vital connection between mental and physical well-being. My TEDx talk became a platform to illuminate this intersection, drawing on personal experiences and professional insights. It is a testament to the transformative power of education, resilience, and the unwavering belief that one person’s narrative can inspire and impact many.
Thank you for all that. Let’s now turn to the main focus of our discussions. Can you tell us a bit about your particular experience with TEDx talks?
Embarking on a TEDx talk journey, for me, was a formidable task. All TEDx events are independently organized by dedicated volunteers, making every interaction with organizers a unique experience. My interaction with the TEDxEvanston team, however, was a testament to the incredible support these organizers provide. From the initial speaker selection to the grand finale, the journey was marked by their genuine commitment and passion. The organizers at TEDxEvanston went beyond expectations, fostering an environment where speakers felt not only acknowledged but truly valued. Personalized TEDxEvanston shirts and a post-event plaque were thoughtful touches that reflected their dedication. This collaborative and supportive atmosphere not only made the process enjoyable but also emphasized the profound impact that passionate organizers can have in fostering ideas worth spreading.
Before we talk about the details, let’s consider the big picture. Preparing for a TEDx talk and securing it obviously requires a lot of mindshare, bandwidth, resources, and energy. From your personal experience, why is it worth it to invest all that to do a TEDx talk?
Honestly, my motivation for pursuing a TEDx talk stemmed from a desire to extend my impact beyond the confines of my exam rooms as a Cardiology Nurse Practitioner. In my practice, I’ve witnessed a profound correlation between mental and physical health, particularly concerning the heart and blood vessels. One condition that exemplifies this link is ‘Takotsubo cardiomyopathy’ or ‘brokenhearted syndrome,’ where a severe emotional trauma can lead to a heart attack. This condition clearly shows the deep connection of our emotional and mental health to our physical health. Reflecting on my healthcare journey spanning over two decades, I recall a time when mental and physical health were treated as separate conditions. The emphasis on this profound connection was minimal, and mental health carried a considerable stigma. However, as science progresses, we’re gaining a deeper understanding of this mind-body relationship. The TEDx talk allowed me to spotlight this connection — showing that you can’t compartmentalize the brain from the rest of the body; they coexist. The stigma around mental health persists, but by contributing to this dialogue, I hope to help break down those barriers and make the sacrifices and efforts invested in the TEDx talk worthwhile.
Now, let’s talk about the how. Can you describe the application process for becoming a TEDx speaker? What are some common challenges faced in the application process that our readers should be forewarned about?
Landing a TEDx talk is often likened to a marathon, with an average of 82 applications needed before securing that coveted spot, if at all. What adds to the challenge is that each TEDx event is independent and run completely by volunteers, making every application a distinctive endeavor. The key to breaking through lies in presenting a clear yet uniquely inspiring idea and meeting the stringent guidelines set by TED. Many organizers also ask for a concise one to three-minute video encapsulating the essence of your idea. I was fortunate and my idea was accepted, finally, after submitting 26 applications. I learned that crafting an application that not only swiftly captures the organizer’s attention but also ensures a clear understanding of the intended message is paramount; which can ultimately sculpt a path for the talk to shine on the TEDx stage.
Is there a website where you can apply for a TEDx talk? How do you apply and submit? How can you find out about all of the TEDx’s that are available?
As each TEDx event is independently organized, there isn’t a centralized platform for submitting to all events, making the process challenging to navigate online. Adding to the complexity, each event revolves around a specific theme, emphasizing the need for alignment between your message and the chosen TEDx theme. To assist aspiring speakers in curating their messages and discovering suitable TEDx events, various communities have emerged. Organizations like ‘Thought-Leader,’ ‘The National Speakers Association,’ ‘Mic Drop Workshop,’ and the Facebook group ‘TEDx Speakers’ provide valuable support and resources, connecting individuals with opportunities and fostering collaboration within the TEDx community.
What strategies did you use or would you recommend to ensure that a talk is engaging and impactful?
Launching into the TEDx experience, I connected with other like-minded individuals sharing the same aspiration or having already graced the TEDx stage. In this collective of minds, we engaged in dynamic brainstorming sessions, forming a support network that became instrumental in navigating our individual paths to the TEDx spotlight. This forum became more than a space for idea exchange; it was a crucible where we shared thoughts, presented our talks, and provided constructive feedback and unwavering encouragement. Amidst this collaborative atmosphere, I discovered the essence of humility and the power of remaining open to feedback. It was during these sessions that I honed the art of storytelling, delving into personal struggles, including the presence of depression and suicidal ideation in my family. What began as an unexpected revelation transformed into a conscious choice to infuse my talk with genuine vulnerability. Sharing these intimate aspects wasn’t initially planned, but I recognized the profound impact it could have. Beyond professional insight, I wanted the audience to connect with the human experience, the raw emotions, and the authentic vulnerability that underscored my message.
There’s a saying from Mark Twain about how it takes more time to prepare for a five-minute talk than for a two-hour talk. The point is that crystallizing an idea and using the exact words is much more difficult than a freeform talk. So, how does a person do that? How does a person boil down an idea into five minutes?
Mark Twain’s wisdom holds true — the ability to engage an audience in a concise, impactful talk requires a distinct skill set. While I’m adept at teaching extended classes, crafting a talk that captivates from the first moment, maintains interest throughout, and culminates in a unique and inspiring idea demands time and precision. I heard an interview with Jamie Fox who said in order to get his comedy right, it can sometimes take up to 2 years. The extensive research and writing process, which took one year for a 15-minute talk, yielded a surplus of material, almost enough for a complete book — a project I’m currently working on, with hopes of publishing next year. Every word became a contender, fighting for its place in the talk. The importance of getting the right words, in the right place, and in the right order became a guiding principle. Positive feedback from trusted individuals on word choices and presentation styles became crucial. Every word had to fight to be in the talk. If it did not add something poignant, it was removed.
Most of us can think of maybe half a dozen different topics that they could speak about. How does a person choose, and say “Okay, this is the one for a TED talk”? How do they choose which of all their ideas should be the one?
My innate drive to illuminate the profound connection between mental and physical health has led me to a compelling need to convey this crucial message to a broader audience thus pursuing a TEDx talk. For others, they may have so many ideas it is hard to narrow it down. TEDx talks are meant to offer a new perspective and be aspirational. My advice for anyone wanting to give a TEDx talk is to reflect on what comes naturally to you or a skill you excel at that others find challenging. The key is to identify why it’s second nature to you and explore how you can impart this skill to others. This introspection often unveils a unique and inspiring message that can serve as a guiding light for both you and your audience.
Feedback is crucial in shaping a compelling TEDx talk. Can you describe how to seek out and incorporate feedback during the talk’s preparation? Who do you turn to for honest critiques, and how do you iterate on your presentation based on the feedback received?
I found turning to the network of other aspiring TEDx speakers in the Thought-Leader program invaluable, as they understood the essence and ambition behind my pursuit. Within this collective, we engaged in reciprocal feedback sessions, honing our talks through constructive criticism. Paying close attention to the audience’s body language and expressions during the sessions became a compass for what did and did not resonate.
Navigating through this process, I also learned the importance of staying true to my voice while remaining open to improvement. Once confident in the construction of my message, I extended my feedback circle to friends and family. Surprisingly, presenting to those closest to me was more challenging and vulnerable than addressing strangers. Their opinions matter most, as well as provide insights into the authenticity of my voice. One particularly valuable feedback I received suggested a simple word change shifting from ‘I see this in my work every day’ to ‘I see this in my practice on a daily basis.’ It was a subtle tweak that significantly enhanced the talk’s credibility, proving the power of meticulous adjustments and refining the message.
Let’s talk about the actual delivery of an excellent TEDx Talk. Most people are scared of speaking in public. How do you manage the stage fright before the talk?
To be frank, the prospect of public speaking, particularly delivering a TEDx talk, is undeniably daunting. The pressure for perfection and the need to execute flawlessly in a single take can be overwhelming, easily succumbing to nerves. Overcoming impostor syndrome was a journey in itself, with recurring thoughts of ‘Who am I to give a TEDx talk?’ surfacing. My nerves quieted when I realized my TEDx talk wasn’t just about me; it was a way for a bigger message to be shared through what I said.
Adhering to the mantra ‘practice makes perfect,’ I rehearsed my talk relentlessly — over a hundred times, with anyone willing to lend an ear. Whether in the car, at the park, or even on a picnic table in a strip mall, I honed my delivery. When the day arrived, I trusted my preparation, knowing my talk inside and out. Positioned as the seventh speaker out of eight, I focused on calming my nerves. Controlling the thoughts that surfaced was crucial. Negative whispers like ‘What if I forget a line?’ or ‘What if it’s so boring they hate it?’ were replaced with a commitment to staying present. Pushing aside anxiety, I immersed myself in the moment and absorbed the energy around me. Sitting in the audience, I listened to all six preceding speakers. Just before taking the stage, vocal warm-ups and a brief meditation further anchored me. The result? Not a single word was forgotten, and there was an overwhelming sense of accomplishment when I finished my TEDx talk.”
What can a person do to ensure that people will remember the talk and that it won’t just go in one ear and out the other? Can you share how you gauge and adapt to audience reactions in real-time during your talk to ensure maximum engagement?
To maintain audience engagement, I strategically incorporated interactive elements into my TEDx talk. Utilizing questions that prompted listeners to raise their hands fostered a dynamic connection. Interspersing the narrative with light humor elicited laughter, creating a vibrant atmosphere. A pivotal moment involved teaching a breathing technique that engaged the entire audience, fostering a collective experience. Weaving in the story of my vulnerability served as an emotional anchor, enhancing the audience’s connection to the message. This multifaceted approach aimed not only to inform but also to involve, leaving a lasting impact on those in attendance.
Here is the primary question of our discussion. Based on your experience or research, what are the “Five Things You Need To Deliver a Highly Effective TEDx Talk ”? If you can, please share a story or an example for each.
- Embrace Imposter Syndrome: Overcoming the nagging feeling of “Who am I to give a TEDx talk?” is crucial. Recognize that if not you, then who? Rather than succumbing to self-doubt, view the opportunity as a chance for growth. In ten years, the regret of not seizing the moment would weigh heavier than any potential setbacks. Remember, every experience, even if it doesn’t go as planned, is a valuable learning opportunity.
- Welcome Feedback with Resilience: Actively seek feedback, but maintain resilience when receiving it. Acknowledge that words and stories resonate differently with different individuals, and not all feedback may align with your vision. Strike a balance between openness to constructive criticism while staying true to your authentic voice. Recognize the importance of a good hook that grabs people’s attention immediately, and be receptive to suggestions that enhance the emotional impact.
- Inject Personal Stories and Vulnerability: Human connection thrives on personal stories and emotions. Sharing your unique experiences and vulnerabilities creates a powerful bond with your audience. Recognize that your personal narrative, no matter how specific, resonates universally. It is through authenticity that people connect, and it is this connection that ensures lasting remembrance.
- Relentless Practice: Practice in diverse and unconventional settings. Whether delivering your talk to a small group online or amidst distractions in an outside strip mall, varied practice conditions enhance adaptability. Seek feedback from friends and utilize every opportunity to refine your delivery. Repeat this process until the day of the speech, ensuring a level of preparation that builds confidence.
- Trust the Process on Speech Day: On the day of the speech, silence the inner critic and trust the process. Stay present and mindful, resisting intrusive thoughts that may trigger fear and doubt. Confidence is built through relentless preparation, allowing you to focus on delivering a compelling and memorable talk without distractions from your own thoughts.
After delivering a TEDx talk, what strategies do you use to maximize its impact and reach? Could you share how to engage with your audience through social media, follow-up events, or other means to encourage action or further discussion on the topic?
While TED and TEDx platforms offer exposure, actively promoting your own TEDx talk is vital. Utilizing social media as a powerful tool, I made certain I shared my talk everywhere including beyond the digital realm, I expanded my reach by participating in podcasts and securing features in my Alma Mater’s magazine, the University of Cincinnati. Locally, I was featured by the hospital where I work in local newspapers, leveraging my TEDx talk to secure guest speaking opportunities. I have spoken for the American Heart Association, in South London, local colleges, and for health and career fairs. Recognizing the potential for broader impact, I took proactive steps to amplify the reach of my message, extending its influence far beyond the initial TEDx stage.
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Thank you so much for sharing these important insights. We wish you continued success and good health!
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